
Many years ago, I read Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom.
It’s one of those books that stays with you, even when life moves on. Not loudly, not urgently… but quietly, in the background, shaping how you think without you even realising it.
Recently, I found myself thinking about it again.
Not so much about the story itself, but about what it teaches us when we are willing to truly listen.
Because before anything else, this is a story about receiving.
In a world that moves quickly, we often feel the need to contribute, respond, or move on.
But what Tuesdays with Morrie shows us is the value of simply sitting and listening.
Listening to someone who has lived. Listening to someone who has learned. Listening without interruption, without rushing, without thinking about what comes next.
There is something powerful in allowing yourself to receive someone else’s perspective fully.
Not everything we need to know has to be learned the hard way.
Sometimes, it is already there… waiting to be shared.
Every stage of life brings its own understanding.
But there is something special about the wisdom that comes with time. It is shaped by experience, by mistakes, by resilience, by reflection.
And that wisdom is not meant to stay with one person. It is meant to be received.
When we take the time to listen to someone older, we are not just hearing stories. We are gaining insight that can guide decisions, shape thinking, and even change direction.
It is one of the most generous exchanges that exists, even if it doesn’t always feel like giving.
As the book unfolds, we begin to understand something deeper.
Morrie is not just sharing stories. He is choosing to give what he has learned.
And in doing so, he reminds us that giving is not always about something tangible. It can be:
And perhaps most importantly, the willingness to sit with someone and share what matters.
There comes a point where we are gently reminded of why these conversations matter so much.
Life moves quickly. Time is not endless.
But instead of seeing that as something heavy, we can see it as something meaningful. It encourages us to speak, to share, to pass things on, while we can.
Across Donegal, this exchange is part of everyday life. In homes, in workplaces, in community spaces, in conversations that might seem ordinary, but are anything but.
People are sharing what they know. And others are receiving it, sometimes without even realising its value in the moment.
Donegal Giving is about recognising this. About naming it, framing it, and celebrating it.
What if we became more intentional about receiving?
What if we paused long enough to really listen?
What if we asked one more question?
What if we valued the insight in front of us, rather than looking elsewhere for answers?
And equally, what if we recognised when it is our turn to pass something on?
This week, try one simple thing.
Sit with someone. Ask about their experience. Listen without rushing.
Or reflect on something you have learned, and share it with someone who might need it.
Because giving and receiving are not separate things. They are part of the same moment.
For anyone who hasn’t read it, Tuesdays with Morrie tells the true story of a former student reconnecting with his old college professor, Morrie, who is living with a terminal illness.
They meet each Tuesday, talking about life’s biggest topics: love, work, family, regret, meaning.
As Morrie’s health declines, his focus is not on what he is losing, but on what he can still give.
And that is perhaps the most powerful part of all.
Even at the end of life, there is still so much value to share, so much wisdom to pass on, so much connection to offer.
It is a reminder that giving does not diminish with age. In many ways, it deepens.
At Donegal Giving, we believe that what we share matters, and what we receive can shape us.
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